So what's the difference?...

I have to say that I am really surprised with recent activity that has gone on here in the past few days.... some in the past months.

When I log onto Detailing Bliss, I expect the major hot topic to be about waxing, polishing... detailing in general. But lurking in the closet is what the "hot topic" really is, the latest GOSSIP. And not about cars or things of that nature, but of a person.

For some people, they get more excited about the gossip than the detailing. Alot of people complain about how AG is run, but I'd say there has ben some pretty rotten stuff going on this forum... Yes AG is strict, but they definately keep thing in a better perspective than on here (THIS IS NOT ATTACK AGAINST THE MODS ON DB, more for the members, yet not all members)

By no means am I perfect, nor do I claim to be in anyway. But to want so bad to know the dirt on someone... that in itself is sicker than what the person may or may not of done.

You can post up what you want about me, I don't care. I have nothing to hide... to gain or lose. and it wouldn't kill me if i never posted on this forum, or any other for that fact.

 

Dust I respect your opinion but let me say this, When someone continually grandstands themselves and fails to EVER take responsibility for any of their negative actions, others look to tear that individual down. We do it with Hollywood stars and Athelets every day. Have you never been intrigued by the latest on Brittney Spears or Micheal Vick? To think that it doesn't happen to everyday run of the mill folks would be hiding your head in the sand. Just saying I see it as somewhat of a double standard when the Hollywood types or Athletes are subjected to it even on outlets like AG and here but when its an ordinary person some get in an uproar.

And Meghan if you are reading this one as well you can always PM me here instead of going back to AG to do it.

 

Honestly I can say, NO I AM NOT. I've got alot better things to do with my life that keep tabs on someone else's affair.

and there is alot we can't do about Hollywood and Athletes, but when it's someone we know, there is something we can do about it. Like refuse to get in on the tearing down of that person.

I know that i made a comment on the thread, and it wasn't right by any means. Again, I'm not perfect, but after thinking about it... i wish i could take it back, but whats done is done and I for one am sorry about it

 

I also think that at some point in ones life you have to stand up and take responsibilities for your actions. When one continually refuses to do that I have zero respect for that person and why do I have to stand idlely by while they profess themselves to others, who are unknowing, as something they are truely not. Wouldn't I be doing those unknowing people a service by informing them that said person is not a trustworthy person and grandstands himself as something he's not?

 

I received a PM from Meghan today. She accused me of making the post on AG under a different username, which I find incredibly insulting and very unprofessional. It's clear that she checks the DB board and probably posts here under a different and obscure user name. But to go and accuse someone of doing something they did not do, well, I would never do something like that to ANYONE without knowing it for a fact.

Very disappointed.

 

That is VERY interesting P1et.

 

A fellow member was robbed nuff' said

 

You realize making this thread will just let it continue, right?

 

wow someone clue me in on the drama

 

Then do it privately.... don't friggin execute the person.

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone​

No one in here... and I mean no one has any room to talk whatsoever about anyone and what they do wrong. No one is perfect, yes I agree that if someone is stealing or doing dirty transactions it should be exposed ONCE!!!

don't throw it in the air all the time... and if i remember correctly he tired to come clean, but no one believed him, because of all the crap that had already been said, everyone refused.

 

as far as im concerned this thread can be closed... and everyone can just read. IDK

 

Dust to be honest this is a bit shocking to me, the reason I highlighted the following items is becuse I really don't know where this is coming from if anything it's an insult to me Dust...I mean this part kinda gets me "...but they definately keep thing in a beter perspective than on here..." man that's quite the comment but we are all entittle to speak freely.

Okay so on this post you make it sound as though someone here has been planning what happend at AG for a few months. Now I may have missed it but where are these ""hot topic" really is, the latest GOSSIP" threads? Like I said I may have missed it. As far as I'm concerned I've been reading about wax, polishing jokes and other things but like I said I may have missed something here.

Now lately I honestly don't think anyone here has complained about AG, I personaly wouldn't alow it..but then again I may have been blinded to a few things not sure.

Dust, I appreciate you sharing your feed back, really I do but I don't understand where this is coming from? I mean I saw the post about the 8PM meeting thing but the members kept it quiet...well as much as possible and I know members around here respect me...well at least I think they do but then again what goes on on the background I have no control over it.

Well like I said thank you for sharing but to be honest I expected a bit more respect from you Dust...but such is life and I'm always learning.....lol...and I thought the forum was going quite well hahahahahaha guess the tricks on me hahahahahaha oh well.

 

This is my favorite site Nica, it IS going good.

 

+1:cool2:

 

Thank you guys it means a lot to me...I mean I'm spending my own money and investing alot of my time to keep this site up...well I'm being a bit dramatical here hahaha it's really not that bad I enjoy the site and it really dosent cost that much lol..well some but that's not the point the point is that...this forum compared to any other forum is way..way..different..in many ways...lol..but I'm a bit biased hahahahaha..but really guys thank you for the comments. If anything it's a good leason, life is full of leasons and I enjoy learning eace:

 

Keep up the great work Nica.

 

Well seeing as Dust sarted the thread and said it could be closed I'm just going to close it and hope that no more drama will come out of it...please :beg: please keep the drama to a minimum guys :beg: :beg:

Thank you eace: