Made a mistake? Good choice? Who knows

hey man, you're still young so go out and have fun. Doesn't have to be the bars at night but go see some friends and enjoy the different experiences life has to offer. I'm 20 myself and still figuring things out. Who knows, maybe this break-up was the best thing that has happened to you and only time will tell. So just push forward and experience the true passions you otherwise desire.

"Live the life you love and love the life you live"

 

Ok so it is not exactly like the story, but kind of...and yes i do know ho the story ends.

 

You'll be golden man. As the wise and noble Bon Jovi once stated "keep the faith" lol

 

:headbang: HAHA

 

My friend its not the first and its not going to be the last u have plenty to look forward and have fun
and a lot of detailing products and waxes that come firts than a gf before u get serious
like we said in Mex she lost it and u save it!!
go out and have fun and like Ken get ur self a nice detailing equipment

 

haha, thanks...maybe I will get myself something nice sometime soon...needa find a girl who likes detailing haha that why I wont get in trouble for my wax collection and can pawn it off as a gift to her...hmmm

 

Did he just quote Bon Jovi? WTF is the world coming to?

 

Its the weekend, I have partial mental impairment from too much relaxation.

 

I've had my fair share of up's and down's relationship wise. I didn't read any of the other posts, just yours. So sorry if i've repeated anything that has already been said. I know what a fresh break up is like, and nothing helps more than distractions. Focus on your hobbies, your detailing, and most importantly your school. Mentally, you need to be strong, and move on from the past (easier said than done, i know). And don't worry about finding someone else, don't make that a focus, enjoy the single life, and the right one will eventually come along. When you don't make finding a gf a big deal, i've noticed in my personal experience, that its easier to connect with new people.

just my $0.02

 

Sorry to hear you are going through this... I can only assume you had very good reason to do something like this...

One thing is focus on you, be selfish and discover who YOU really are, what YOU really like doing etc, etc... Often times after being in a long relationship your focus is on you & your GF or just on your GF and rarely on just you.... Focus on you, do things for you, have fun for you!!

In doing so you will find your own internal peace and happiness that comes from inside of you - no one can EVER take that away.... Plus that just gives you even more to offer to a potential future GF...

Keep your chin up and get out there and live some life!

 

Best advice evar! :applause:

 

1st off, I know it's hard.

2nd, keep your head up.

Life can be difficult sometimes, and can throw some nasty curveballs at you. One day you'll hit a home run. It just takes time.

I agree with the idea of focusing on school, and your hobbies.

I am married with 2 kids, and detailing is like Zen for me. Gives me a break from working 2 jobs and the family. Life can be very hectic, and marriage isn't easy either. It's just as fragile as just being BF/GF.

Hang out with friends, and do what YOU like. One day, a winner will come, and you'll know when that is.

Life is full of many things, go out and enjoy them.

Good luck my friend.

 

not like you were attached to her. 3 hours is long distance relationship and usually doesnt work unless both ppl are very busy. 3.5 is hard though. i would feel like i wasted last 3 years, thats where im at right now with my gf but things are just fine so no worries there. but at least you ended it and you probably did right thing, just focus on life for now and things will come together at some point. look at bright side, you have more time for detailing lol